Millennials Need to Embrace the Unknown of Their Future

Our twenties are for us to find out who we are and discover our purpose in life right? We are still being adventurous, trying to figure out what we look for in a partner, and trying to figure out where we are meant to plant our roots and spend our life. You have to be young and stupid in order to be old and wise.

I know not being exactly where you want to be in life is discouraging. You aren't making enough money in your eyes for what you want or you're not working in the ideal company you've dreamed of but you know what thats okay. Being in your twenties is that great awkward time to experiment, make mistakes, and be an idiot. Don't punish yourself for trying to figure your life out. Being unemployed or not having an exact direction can sometimes actually be more helpful rather than hurtful. Enjoy the free time you have while you can, you just finished a degree and now have more time to explore the world around you, take full advantage of this!

Use this time to intern with a company that has possible growth, or intern in addition to a job. Keep working at your job, but have an internship thats another interest or possibility for you. Give yourself options, interning doesn't always have to feel like a "waste of time" if your not getting paid. It's an experience in itself, its letting yourself gain more knowledge to figure out where your meant to go. You never know what can come from an internship, you can meet so many people that can influence your future or guide you in the direction of your goal. Network, be outgoing, and ask endless amounts of questions!

Not only can you intern, you can volunteer your time, help others if you can't exactly help yourself. Never pass up an opportunity to put yourself in an unfamiliar environment and see how you handle it. Be a problem solver, listen to your gut, and make your own path. Volunteering can give you the opportunity to meet new people and open your eyes to a different way of life.

Being jobless or not having an exact plan or direction is not a bad thing. Sometimes you need to regroup, refocus, and discover your passion again. Refuel that passion and really figure out what you want in life. After all, don't you want to be young, wild, and free as long as you can?

Xo, Nik

Have you been getting the "drunchies" lately?

It's Summer time and all of us are having as much fun as possible. Time off from school and weekends off from work, all of it equals trouble. Your pockets are empty, but you don't care because Summer is the time to be adventurous, make bad decisions, and learn more about yourself. Going on mini road trips with friends, spending late nights on the lake, drive in movies with that Summer fling, country concerts, and bar hopping until the sun comes up. Gotta love those late nights that seem like they won't end, with those crazy ass humans you call your best friends. All I know is at the end of those crazy endless nights of drinking, I just want to eat anything and everything that looks good! I'm sure you know this feeling all too well, a couple drinks in you and your craving the most ridiculous foods possible. Of course these choices are no where near healthy and you might regret them the next day, but hey you can't help it, you have the "drunchies." What are your go to "drunchies" at 2, 4, or even 6 am?! We are all guilty of having some pretty ridiculous meals while were drunk, so why not share them with everyone else and share the wealth! I know when I've had a few drinks, I am more willing to try something new or whatever looks good at least, HA! Here are my 7 "drunchie" food favorites, no judging please!

1. PIZZA DUH. Not only do yo have endless options of toppings, but it does help soak up that extra alcohol you may be starting to regret.

2. DOUBLE cheese.. oh wait sorry I meant TRIPLE bacon cheese burger.

3. French Fries... or wait let's get crazy, screw it I'm getting cheese fries!

4.Tacos, like 5 of them. With everything and anything that can be crushed in there. Soft shell of course.

5. Cereal.. okay I know this sounds boring but come on. You never went home and looked in your pantry and said THANK GOD for these Cocoa Pebbles, Fruit Loops, or Cinnamon Toast Crunch in my life! I know I have.. no shame.

6. Philly cheese steak... it has cheese on it, need I say more? Oh, the steak isn't too bad either.

7. Eggs, bacon, and more bacon... add some cheese on that.. and syrup maybe.. you know what throw a donut on there too...

What do you think of my drunchie cravings? Weird or are you reading this saying, damn it, these are my favorite too.

Life After College

It’s finally Summer! Isn't summer suppose to be a small break from reality, stress free even? Well, this summer is quite the opposite for me personally, I just graduated from college. Being a graduate changes a lot about your next steps into adulthood. Your coming from this routine of homework, dealing with deadlines, studying, group projects, internships, etc. Now all of that goes away and your left with debt, a degree, and no job offers.. Where do you go from here?1. Networking/Social Media: Networking for our generation is crucial! Knowing what social media fits best for you and the industry your looking to be apart of. Watch what you post, no drinking and tweeting anymore! This is the time of your life where all your hard work has paid off and you are waiting for those job offers to come piling in! Don’t mess up that chance because of that drunk photo from the weekend or that stupid drunk tweet from last night. Pay attention to what social media your favorite companies are using, make sure you have accounts on these platforms and know how to use them! Selling yourself is crucial, make your self seen and your name heard.
2. Update & perfect your resume: Double and triple check that resume! Make sure there are no small errors, everything is in place and all your information is up to date. Double, triple, even quadruple check it. Make sure your cover letter and resume are cohesive, you want to make sure you look put together on paper or they wont even bother considering you in person. Making   a good impression without them physically seeing you can be tough, so don't let something small like a spelling error make or break this next job opportunity.
3. Create business cards, put yourself out there: Put a face to your name. Get yourself out there, be social! You are aloud to go out and have fun, mind as well network while your doing it! You want people to remember your name and be able to put your face to it, be outgoing, interesting, sociable and intelligent. Talk about what you know, don't brag, but show your confidence! Give business cards to possible people you think maybe valuable to you in the future. You never know who could help you down the line, don't burn bridges.
4. Get on a budget (You don't want to live at moms forever): OKAY we all DON’T want to live with our parents until were 30, but sometimes those loans and credit card bills start piling up all too quickly. Make a budget for yourself, know what you need to have monthly and give yourself a time frame on when you want the debt paid off. Work on one credit card at a time in addition to your other bills/loan payments. Focus more on one credit card, put more than the minimum on this card each month, on the other cards do the minimum. After you have got that one credit card down and paid off, move onto the next card. Have a plan, pay attention to your spending, ad budget! If you have a strategy and a goal, your going to pay your debt off faster, trust me!
5. Work to get experience & to gain more skills: If you don’t have your ideal career yet don’t get worked up about it. Work where you can right now, doesn't mean it will be forever. You may work your way up in the company or you may only work for 6 months then get another job offer and move on. Dont turn down opportunity that can give you experience and knowledge for your future. Take the offers you know you will excel at and that you are confidence with. Dont sell yourself short, you will get there at the right time.Timing is crucial, when your meant to get there you will, not a minute or second sooner. Be patient  with yourself. What’s for you will not pass you. All your hard work will pay off. Give yourself a break and some time to enjoy your summer too, you are a graduate now! You are a young adult who has accomplished something big, don’t forget that!

Top 10 Must Have Summer Accessories

This summer is coming faster than you think, it's time to start updating your accessory collection. Here are my top 10 must-haves that you should add to upgrade your accessory game!

1. Body Chains: (shoulder, back, full body, thigh) So many options and so many different looks! Have fun with it.

2.  Chokers (Layering chokers): From quarter moons to flower charms, ribbon chokers with these charms are a cute and simple way to add some flare to any outfit. 

3. Statment necklaces: From inspirational words to your personal name/ initial, these necklaces are fun and unique for anyone. 

4. Initial rings: Something little, inexpensive, and simple to add to your jewelry collection. 

5. Crocheted shoulder bags: Adds some texture to your overall outfit and look. Not your average bag. 

6. Small face/ thinner watches: Out with the big in with the small, smaller is better lately when it comes to watches. Fun prints and colors, or even if neutrals are more your style, small watches are a great addition to anyones jewelry box. 

7. Fun Fedoras: Try something different with a black or brown fedora. Some are plain or some have some bows or texture to them. Whichever you prefer for your wardrobe, there are plenty of options to choose from.

8. Flash tattoos: Silver and gold, whichever you prefer. Pick some out and show them off.

9. Round sunglasses: Round glasses are coming out to play and there looking better than ever before.

10. Thick-heeled shoes: Sick of wanting to go out and wear fun heels, fear no more! Now you can actually walk easier and look fabulous with thick heeled shoes this summer. 

Pony Tail Enthusiasts, This Creation is for You

Attention all pony tail enthusiasts, pay attention, this creation is definitely for you! Every girl always has a hair tie on her wrist for easy access so at any point in our day when we need to throw our hair up we can. Sometimes you don't want to wear one on your wrist because it doesn't look good with your outfit or it ends up leaving your wrist with a line around it. Someone has come up with a genius idea to disguise our hair ties and make them look like just another everyday bracelet.

Founder of BitterSweet Shireen Thor created this built-in hair tie bracelet with her husband. She claims to be a problem solver, so when she saw that people were asking for a way to still wear a hair tie on their wrist, but in someway have it look more attractive. “The bracelet was sparked out of love and creativity to solve a common problem for women." Well, women asked and now they have received that wrist relief.

All bracelets are steel-plated and come in a silver, gold, and rose gold finishes. These bracelets are decently affordable ranging from $45.00-$85.00. This purchase is definitely something to consider and they bracelets are so unique. Such a great idea to have a fashionable cover up for hair ties so you can take away that "tacky" feeling when your wearing a hair tie on your wrist everyday.

Xo Nik

10 Things The Kardashians Do That You Shouldn't

1)Don’t Diss America’s Sweetheart 

OK, we all remember when Kayne West bolted on stage at the VMA’s and took over the mic from Taylor Swift. Everyone hated him for years and thought he was completely out of line, yet that obviously didn’t bother Kim. So what did we learn from this incident, don’t try to take T-Swifts spotlight by being entitled. 

2) Don’t Open Your Bedroom to the World

It’s okay to be to scandalous with your man in private, but to let everyone see it without thinking of the consequences is just stupid. Don’t become famous by a sex tape, actually work for what you want. 

3) Kylie Lip Challenge: Bring Out the Duck Face

This goes without saying, just don’t do it! Don’t be that girl on the internet thats known for looking absolutely ridiculous because Kylie Jenner did it.

4) Kardashian for President

When you cant even handle yourself, don’t think you can the world, or even Glendale for that matter. How about working on your life before you think you can lead others. 

5) Intensional nip slip 

Have some self respect, post pictures where people remember it for you and not your body parts. PAY ATTENTION, don't be careless, your reputation comes from your actions, people remember EVERY scandal. 

6) Annoying Selfies 

Don’t have “selfie parties”, know your limit. Be aware of how much your posting, don’t give people reasons to hate you even more. 

7) Feeling 22 with Plastic Surgery 

SO let’s just say an ideal present for your 22nd birthday wouldn't be breast implants or a complete face lift. Don’t pull a Kardashian by re-constructing your face or body. Feel beautiful in your own skin and be proud of your appearance. 

8) Saying “I do” Has consequences

Remember marriage is for two people that are in love and want to spend their lives together! Don’t just get married because you want to be noticed, get married because your in love! Every girl wants to have a huge wedding and wants to feel like a princess, but wait for that right guy and the right time. DON’T RUSH LOVE, love will happen when its meant to. 

9) So I think I’m Pregnant 

Be safe and be responsible. When you take one pregnancy test and it says positive +, I am 99% sure that your pregnant, you don’t need to double, triple, or check 20 times to get the confirmation of have a baby in your stomach. Know what you got yourself into and prepare yourself for a life changing experience. 

10) “Tipsy Yoga” in Public 

Yoga is a fun and relaxing way to relieve stress, it is also great exercise. Yoga isn't for people that are trying to get attention or disturb your “zen.” Get a drink after yoga, yoga and wine just don’t mix. 

Say Yes to the Challenge: 100 Mile Challenge CgC5X5

Happy Monday Everyone,

Today is the first day of the week, why not start it off on the right foot! Do you want to be more fit? Are you bored with your current exercise routine or are you just looking for something else to motivate you? Well I am working with CgC Daily to get this challenge out there to all of my  followers and their followers as well!

Heres how it works, you need to accumulate 5 miles a day, 5 days a week, until you hit your 100 miles! (Just in time before Memorial Day weekend) Run, walk, swim, bike,hike, anything and everything you can think of! Exercise 5 days a week and keep track of your miles.

We have a facebook page, like our page to show us your participating and share with us your photos and experience during this challenge! Share your advice on how to reach your 5 miles a day or share your fun and new ways of exercising. We want to hear your success and see how your doing! This is such a fun challenge and I can't wait to see all who participate! Please follow our facebook page and comment on this post about anything involving this challenge.

Enjoy your week and start exercising!

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Pastel Hair Colors: Color of your Dreams or Epic Nightmare?

We all know spring is here, and that means pastel colors! Pastels are so pretty this time of year considering we have been so used to dreary and dark colors from winter. We finally can get away from the darkness and brighten up our days. Mints, lilacs, and cotton candy pink, have been showing up not only in apparel and cosmetics, but hair colors are making the Spring transition as well. When I think of pastels, I think of delicate flowers, a sun dress or maybe even gel polish for my next manicure, but I wouldn't consider pastels as a color of choice for my hair. Keeping up with your hair is hard enough as it is with highlights, coloring, styling, cutting, etc. I can only imagine the keep up and the struggles it truly takes to get the perfect pastel shade.

Many celebrities have been opening their arms completely to this new hair trend and most are having fun with it. Some completely transformed their color fully or some did an ombre to have the color be a bit more subtle. Using these delicate Spring colors can be fun, but time consuming and more of a hassle rather than a help to change your look. Most celebrities that have done this don't look too bad, but I'm sure it took them more than once to get it to where they imagined it. 

The reality of this pretty pastel hair trend is that it's pretty for a short while, but the maintenance and after math of it all is probably more stressful. To keep your hair color healthy and vibrant, your hair needs to be moisturized to get the full advantage of the color. Color lightning is actually the most damaging hair coloring process you can do to your hair, compared to changing a light color to a more vibrant color. I think the idea is fun and maybe worth trying with clip in extensions or temporary hair dye that washes off in the shower, but to make that permanent pastel color commitment is a lot to take on. So, if your thinking of making a drastic or even slightly new hair color, truly think about the maintenance and time it will consume from you to keep up with it before you take that style plunge. 

Here are some photos of celebs that took the plunge to pretty pastel hair. What do you think?

Kristen Stewart

 Demi Lovato

Ashley Tisdale

Vanessa Hudgens

Katy Perry 

Julianne Hough

 Hilary Duff

 Miley Cyrus

Ke$ha

Xo Nik

Shades for Spring

I finally bought my very first pair of Ray Bans! So exciting and I love them, very successful shopping trip I'd say. I was not planning on making this purchase, but I have been looking at them for a while and thought it was time to take the plunge. Sunnies are trending in all shapes, colors, and sizes now. Some are more funky than others, but regardless of your style, you need a new pair for Spring! Along with some new sunglasses, I thought I'd try some new lip colors as well. NYX has some great shades for Spring, and I needed something different to try. NYX has such a large selection and there prices are super affordable!


 Here are my Ray Bans I purchased, and some other sunglasses that I put on my sunglasses wish-list.

Also, here are the names of the new lip colors I purchased, I love them and would recommend them to anyone wanting to try a new lip color thats bold and fun for Spring!

NYX Butter Lipstick (Only $5.99!)
*Gum Drop
*Lollies
*Snow Cap
*Hunk

NYX Round-case Lipstick (Only $3.99!)
*LALA
*Violet Ray
*Castle
*Fig

Xo Nik