I'M BACK!
Sorry everyone, I feel like at some point of the year I am always going MIA for a bit. You know how life is, trying to figure out what you want for yourself in life or even day by day, even though I can barely even figure out what kind of coffee I want in the morning. Transforming and growing into my mid twenties brings a lot of different stresses, opportunities, emotions and obstacles that I never even thought of before. Honestly, I didn't think I still would be living in NY where I grew up, I made a goal and promise to myself by this time I would be moved back to Los Angeles California by the age of 25 with the perfect plan that I would have reached and accomplished, and unfortunately I haven't made it there yet. I have defiantly progressed into becoming more successful and closer to the ending career I want for myself, but I am not even close to feeling fully fulfilled and happy with my career and life choices yet. I can lie and say I don't have regrets, but I do have some, but doesn't everyone? I am trying now to think outside of my imagination and really look at the reality of my life considering in reality, time is ticking and I don't want to waste anymore of it. Moving forward in life your suppose to change your way of thinking, come up with new solutions, try different avenues to get to where you see yourself, and yet all these things unfortunately can't come all at once. People always say, "your doing the best you can your not alone.", or"it takes time you'll get there"! Well yes of course things take time and yes of course others in there mid twenties may feel this way or may be in the same boat, but I don't want to be in that boat. I want to be on my own yacht for crying out loud. I want to be able to say I'm achieving all my goals and living my dreams because I have worked hard for it and I've earned it. I know many older generations think millennials just want things handed to them, but in the end we are the next generation that is going to be that success in the business world and will make a difference, if you give us that chance and have faith in our choices we might actually give you a run for your money. I don't want to be the 40% or more of millennials that are just thriving for something more, sitting at a boring 9-5 desk job waiting for it just fall in their lap, ACTUALLY DO SOMETHING TO MAKE IT HAPPEN! I want to get what I want not just dream about it or wish for it. I am sure you are reading this article and thinking whatever I have seen this before or I feel this way but its not going to change. Unfortunately, thats the exact attitude and mindset of why it won't change! That is why other generations think we are lazy or un experienced or not driven enough because we think we are doing "our best" but we haven't even hit the tip of the iceberg of what we are capable of. This isn't college anymore, this is real life, you have rent you need to pay right, you have travel plans to explore the world, or you have those shoes you have been dying to have for months right or wait how about those high ass student loan payments that are not going away? Mommy and daddy's wallet can't always save you, its time to fucking grow up! Well none of these are just going to happen if you don't get your ass in gear and prove to yourself you have what it takes. Let's be real, we are in our mid twenties now, party time is over, its now time to be kick ass at what most people call being an adult!
Xo Nik
